I was born in Belarus. Moved to Norway at the age of 3, then to America at 19. Now I am raising a family in America.

3 countries, and 3 completely different systems. Each system feels as real as any other, while you are inside of it.

It’s when I moved, I felt the systems collide. Everything was different. The view of life, the behaviors, and even what you were allowed to say out loud.

Yet, I noticed, everyone is the same all over the world. The same system running underneath, just with a different costume. And most are confident that theirs is the only right one.

I didn’t become smarter, I was moved. The moving, the collision of the systems, is what really did the teaching.

This website is here to show you the systems without the costumes.

It’s not news. Not advice. Not a movement. Simply my observations that made my own life easier to understand and live. Maybe it will do the same for you!

I am not outside the systems. Nobody is. I watch mine on good days and miss them on the rest.

Stories ask who is guilty.

Systems ask what produced this.

Observe.

Separate feeling from certainty.

Separate stories from systems.

Look twice.

Be willing to update.

Remain curious.